A character trait I would like to perfect in me is being polite to my siblings, parents, friends, and all people I come across.I will do that by always THINKing bet fore I act or say anything. I will try my best to be patient and keep my anger within me. I will try my best to not yell at my parents nor my siblings and always be kind to them and help them, too.
I love your goals Heba!
Also. instead of keeping anger within yourself, you can distinguish it, so just in case you're in a really frustrating situation, and you cant keep that anger within yourself, it'll be fine since there is no anger anyways!
Anger is also a disease of the heart, so it's REALLY important that we learn how to control/distinguish it.
You can distinguish it by sitting down, lying down, drinking water, and making wudu.
Remember, the strong one is he who controls his anger.
A character trait I would like to perfect in my self is patience.
I need to be more patient with my siblings and everyone else much more often. A way I can perfect this character trait is maybe when I am doing something for me or someone else I will try to develop over time, so basically what I am saying is, after I go through more of these patient situations I will change to become more patient over time, inshallah.
Also when your patient its harder to become angry
Good trait Rayaan. Also when you are responsible your parents and teachers will be happy which is a bonus. Responsibilty is a hard task to master because under goes time management, self control and a bunch of other things.
sorry misplaced this was supposed to be under Rayaans thing
One characteristic that I would like to improve is being kind to my friends, parents and family members and one way I can do that is by watching my tongue when I start talking to them. This will help me from blurting out more than I have to.
Yes, thats true. we have to be polite to everyone no matter who they are.
Once you achieve that goal, Areeba, you can help others achieve that goal too since we ALL need tp work on that!
i agree as well, being polite especially to the people you dont like much is a very hard task
A trait I would like to perfect in myself is understand and display what I believe in.
Now I know that I believe in Islam, 5 pillars, Prophet Muhammad (S), and we know the rest.
What I mean here are my values. Not as society, but just me. Do I value friendship or peaceful solitude? Thoughtfulness or thrilling fun? And some of these things I guess I know what, or who, I should be, but I think that we can all agree that being twelve is tough, and it's a time when we really decide who we are from inside, and what we believe in.
I want to discover who I am (I guess that sounds pretty girly), what I believe in, and my purpose towards society. How am I going to benefit society? Will I be a doctor and save lives? A writer and educate others? A vet and save animals? A diplomat and create lasting peace?
I've never really been able to decide what I want to pursue as a career when I get older, so I wanted to decide on that.
But most of all, I just want to display my beliefs, and who I am as a being, and show that to the world.
I hope everyone thinks about that, even if it sounds kind of childish (does it?) so we can form a better society for tomorrow.
One trait I would like to perfect in me is my responsibility. I should learn to do my homework before it is due, so I don't have any problems. I should also study ahead, and plan ahead for future events. One way im gonna do that is by before sleeping check if I did everything I was supposed to, and what I can do now or later to fix it.
One character triat that i would like to perfect myself in is to control my anger. i get angry really fast for the smallest things and i want to stop that. Some examples that the prophet SAW said were that if u are standing, sit down, if u are sitting lay down or make wudu. i will try to do all of these before i actually start getting angry at the smallest things. ill also try to calm myself down by taking a nap (if its the right time).
Yes, Hilal. We should also try to control our anger with the tips Prophet Muhammad (SAW) has given us.
a character trait that i would like to perfect on myself is controlling my anger. i can control it by walking away, making wudu, praying, sleeping or washing my face
this is great tip aleena! i need to work on controlling my anger too! i also read that drinking water can help you calm down,so when you are mad you can try that tip too
a trait i would like to perfect is watching my mouth. i need to be more respectful to friends, family, siblings, and teachers. one way i can do this is by watching my mouth and thinking twice before i speak. some things i say my be hurtful towards others,so i should put myself in their shoes and imagine how i would feel if someone said that to me.
a trait that i would like to implement in my self is humbleness. after i get a good grade or win a game i should stay humble like the prophet SAAW.
One character trait i would like to perfect in myself is to make sure i help others through there hardship and make sure not to make anyone sad because of my own depression.
One way i can implement that, is by smiling. Smiling always encourages people to be happy and content. Even if I am not happy its good to smile. It effects others as well as makes you feel better because when you smile someone smiles back.
A trait that I want to work on is respect to adults. Sometimes, when we feel that we know an adult well enough, we tend to feel to comfortable around them and treat them like our peers or classmates. We have to remember that this person is older than us, and even though we feel as comfortable as friends with them, they aren't technically at the respect level of a "friend." So, for my goal, I want to respect my adults more, including my parents, and even if I don't agree with what they say, I shouldn't rebel, or call them names, like a typical child fight. No matter what they say, I have to learn to express my feelings in a way that shows utmost respect.
Something that I would like to prefect in myself is being generous. I can do this by being a little more self-less. Sometimes you have a lot more than you don't need, so instead of keeping unnecessary things you can be giving it to others instead and actually benefit them. It helps to give a little more because then you won't be too attached to this world but your'e still getting good deeds.
something that i would really like to perfect in is effort. At times I feel like the things I had done in the past could be better if only I had put more effort into it, so this is a main reason why i want to perfect myself in this aspect
One trait that I would like to try and perfect within myself is patience. I have an older sister and younger brother and for how close we are we get on one another's nerves. To try and perfect patience within myself I would try and calm myself down and talk to my sibling. Instead of yelling I would talk to them and tell them what is annoying me. Obviously I can't be constantly on their back judging their every movement. In the long run this would help me with patience as an adult, at my job, in public, or at home.
Controlling one's anger goes hand in hand to being patient. One should learn to control their anger when something is bothering them and remain patient.
You're right Musa but keep in mind that some anger is good like if people are doing bad things, for example calling allah and the prophet names we should be angry but not take out that anger. Instead we should harness it or control it try making people understand.
Also Musa remember humbleness is a good trait you should never be proud air arrogant(referring to the 2nd best thing, also I'm not judging it's just a tip).
One characteristic i want to try to practice is controlling my anger. Often times we get mad when someone does something that we don't like so we just start yelling at them and you might say something bad that you intentionally did not mean to say and it just comes out just like that with no warning. If someone does something to you that you don't like, tell them in a nice way that you don't like it and to stop doing it. Also, if you get really mad, a technique that you can you is making wudu which is a really good way.
One trait I would like to perfect in myself is anger control. When I get mad, I usually just get all crazy and blow up with anger!
To prevent this, I like to breath and just take a break. I usually like to lay down and make wudu.
One character trait I NEED to perfect is anger management. When Im mad, and stressed at the same time, watch out. Its not pretty.. Anyways, I know that the Prophet SAW was a great example for this, he was calm and gentle, even when people tried to literally kill him. Heck I'm ready to kill when my sister asks for a sharpener!! I know the importance of this trait, and I really want to learn to possess it. One way Im going to try to implement this plan into action is to wait 5 secs, calm down and think about the actions my words will lead to. For example, my sister asks for a sharpener, if I yell and scream and..ya, then she will cry and tattletale, and then, I'm dead. Instead, I can realize the innocence of the question, calm down, and answer politely.
I definitely agree with you Sara its never pretty when I'm angry and that is a good way to avoid to get angry. I am going to try that!
One trait i want to improve on is being generous. Sometimes i say no when someone asks an item from me. Sometimes i just say it straight NO! In the end i should be generous.
That is a great trait to perfect. We should always be open when others ask us for anything. We should never say NO, like I somtimes do.
One trait I would like to perfect in my self is being patient no matter what the situation is. I would like to perfect this trait because I am really bad at it. Also it would help me stay calm in harsh situations.
A trait I would like to perfect in myself is forbearance. Sometimes my brothers annoy me, but I should try to control my anger and not rage on them.
A trait i would like to improve is being more patient. Whenever my friends or family take to long with something i have a really hard time of being patient with them. Also being patient is a really good trait to have because the Prophet Muhammad [S.A.W] was always patient for everything.
My trait would be steadfastness this is a good trait because I want to be steadfast in my religion and other things that I do. I can do this by trying to make myself firm and not swaver or bend. Also sometimes when people become too steadfast they can become stubborn. Balance is also a good trait.
One trait that I have to perfect in myself is controlling my anger. When something frustrates me to the point where I get really mad I do NOT know how to control myself! I scream and say things I do not mean. If I am able to control myself my whole character would change. I am trying to perfect this trait by writing everything I want to say. I also have a punching bag in my room which helps me calm down. Writing things down instead of saying them helps relax you and is harmless to you and the people around you. If you always say what you think you get into A LOT of trouble so writing it down gets it out in a positive way. (I also have a bad habit of pulling out my hair when I'm mad but that's not helpful).
I agree Rama patience is important!!! I would also like to learn to be patient even when something may take long or gets annoying.
Patience, a way I can perfect patience is trying not to be as harsh on my little Brother
One trait that i would like to improve in myself is responsibility. Responsibility is important because you need it to keep your self balanced and on track. I should always try not to procrastinate because when you procrastinate, the quality of your work will not be very well and you will stress yourself out. A way that can make me more responsible is to stay very attentive in everything that i do.
A trait i would love to perfect myself in is anger. I have issues with controlling my anger towards others. I could start controlling my anger by.... sitting down, if im standing. And a lot of other ways!
A character trait I would like to perfect in my self is my temper or my patience. For instance, even the little things my younger brother does drives me crazy. And my way to try to avoid doing that is thinking about the good things I can do and always try to think of the consequences. And many other ways!! :)
A character trait that I would like to perfect in my self in would be to talk kinder towards my siblings. For example, if they are doing something I don't like I can ask them to please stop instead of yelling at them.
One characteristic I would love to perfect is patience. I would love to be able to forgive everyone and not lose my control. This characteristic helps everybody get along better, and that is why I want to be patient.
One example of patience is when someone is bothering us while we are studying or doing somethinng, and you keep calm and do the right thing, which is keeping control and forgiving the person doing it.
Just something i noticed: I DID NOT read any of the comments above, which are all about patience before I commented. I read them after andnoticed, so I apoligize for "no creativity."
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